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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

How to spend your Valentine's Day for good

Valentine's Day is only just a few weeks away. On that day, lovers should renew their vows and commitments for each other and make love and bonding stronger. But there are lots of ways to celebrate it, though. The following are just some of my personal opinions/suggestions on how to make your Day of Hearts a little bit different and memorable at the same time:

  • Invite your lover to go to the church with you. It is important, for the married ones, to be in the place where they have been united in marriage. It will serve as a reminder about the wedding vow they have said: "To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, 'till death do us part." As for the unmarried lovers, taking time to spend your Valentine's Day in the place of worship will earn you blessings from the Almighty God.

  • Write a poem and recite it in front of your beloved. Your lover may find it corny (or perhaps not), but by doing so you would have done one of the most romantic ways of expressing your feelings. Poets are skilled to win or win back someone's heart through their verses. Because poetry is intended for both the intellect and emotions, the receiver would surely be delighted with you making her or him your subject.

  • Bring your special someone to a karaoke bar and have a light drink with her or him. While in the place,  sing about those songs you want to dedicate to her or him but, most importantly, your theme songs. Singing doesn't require that you must have a golden voice but as long as you can sing along will be just fine. Some of you probably might disagree about my adding a "light drink" in the menu. Well, a right amount of alcohol infused into our system would keep our guts surging to reveal some of our most innate of characters. Heavy drinking, on the other hand, would ruin it all.

  • A candlelight dinner for two in a secluded place is ideal. A quite, comfortable, and laid-back environment is the best place where you can talk to your partner well and share the moment with utmost privacy. Talk about those good things you and your lover have shared together and also of the bad things you have gone through and weathered both.

It has been said that love is not just about feelings but, also, an ability. Relationships may fail, but there are countless ways  to preserve and fix them. Winning someone's heart requires a skill, or sometimes wisdom, and it comes with a great responsibility from that time on. You may pick one of my suggestions, but you can as well pick all of them to do in a single day. Advance Happy Valentine's Day to all!


  1. Wonderful blog. Thank you for sharing your ideas. I like the one about the Karaoke bar :). That was what I was doing when I first met my husband. Who said you could not find true love in a bar? That was nearly 15 years ago :)

  2. Betty, thank you for your comments and for sharing us a bit about your love story as well. Love comes from the most unexpected places, it has been 15 years ago since you found your true love and it's amazing to know you've gone through that long for love. A lot of couples today have their marriages ruined or lovers with their relationships broke up. Keep lovin'!


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